Thank you both. You're right there is no way I'm leaving this job without another unless I'm told to leave. So I'm just trying to view it all from another plane. This week was hard cause I just didn't feel well and didn't go out at all.

The fact that they know about the court dates and why I have so many doctor appointments etc, is good for sure and may be some of the reasons behind it all.

It's really good to have a life outside of work, thank goodness.