Not that the word 'charm' fits in the case of your case, but I hope the third time is one.

I think the workplace, good or bad, provides structure, continuity and a strange but familiar comfort to our lives. I've been saying for years that I will never retire. As much as my current job may cause me stress, I will always do something.

One of the reasons I suggested finding the gathering place for OL, if there is one, is the need for those connections.

I'm just sayin'

I'm watching the figure skating as I type. The judges kill me.